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For women navigating divorce and coercive control

Heart open.
Eyes open.

In a high-conflict marriage and divorce, your empathy can be used against you, and the cost lands on your finances and your health. LikeHER helps you prepare, manage and rebuild, with a safe circle of women who've been there and experts who have your back.

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Free to startPrivate by designBuilt by a woman who lived it
Rebecca Kaykas-Wolff, founder of LikeHER
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Plan. Manage. Re-Launch.

Choose the support that fits your life today. Your next chapter can begin at any stage.

Quiet Planning Guide
10 steps before you tell anyone
10steps
free
From Rebecca
FREE GUIDE

Plan

The Quiet Planning Guide

The 10-step checklist for the weeks before you tell anyone, so you leave safer and better prepared.

  • Your safety plan
  • Private email and storage
  • Your state's coercive control law
  • Your 10 key incidents
  • Your money picture
  • Plus five more steps

Use an email only you can see.

Attorney Readiness Guide
My consultation brief
Net worth$ ———
Pattern log6 entries
Questions9
$313an hour you
don't spend
Built by Rebecca
STEP 1

Manage Your Process

Attorney Prep Document — Step 1

Walk into your first consultation organized. Build the one-page brief most firms charge you to put together.

  • Your money on one page
  • A dated pattern log
  • Your state's law, explained
  • Questions to ask first
  • What to bring with you
  • Works with or without a lawyer

Legal information, not legal advice. $313 is the national average hourly rate (Clio 2025); Bay Area rates often run higher.

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Re-Launch Your Life
My next chapter
Purpose→
Opportunity→
Mission→
Your next chapter
NEW GUIDE · DRAFT

Re-Launch Your Life

A 360-degree re-launch of you

Define your next life's opportunity, purpose and mission. Start building what comes next—even while you plan and manage.

  • Financial independence
  • Career and purpose
  • Home and family
  • Wellbeing and connection
  • Your personal mission
  • Your first 30 days
Open the Re-Launch guide
Bay Area pilot

Your circle—from the beginning.

A dedicated, consistent peer circle from the start of divorce—not only after it. Plan, manage your process and re-launch your life with women who know your story. Private, leader-led LikeHER cohorts are in development.

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Rebecca Kaykas-Wolff
No woman should go broke or be re-traumatized to get free. I built LikeHER so you walk into every room prepared, and never alone.Rebecca Kaykas-Wolff, Founder & CEORead her story